World and me conflicts !!

 As I have already mentioned,I'm a very indigenous person who has improved a lot but yet I sometimes don't see any way out.Also I can't stay without telling a person going on wrong way, to stop and catch the right one.

one of my best friends asked me today not to be judgmental for(something not to be mentioned). But have to tell and can find no words to say......

I'll try to narrate it quickest n most indirect way I can.I know u'll surely read it(as u regularly do that for me).So here I go...
I've not lived a very long n experiencing kind-of life but still I don't know how but I have a thing in me or u can say I get VIBES for things. And of course this time it was negative. I know I'm not wrong in course of trusting u.Still... U r WRONG this time :(

 
Not always we fall from a motor bike,when we ride it fast.Its only at times when we have met an accidents.
Its not always that Lecturer is watching us, Its only the time when he stops us from eating in CLASS.
Its not we start drinking to be a drunkard, Its a thing that perhaps comes within unknowingly,settles down there, Only way out of that is ,either accept it or let this thing go.

Things never change around us.Its always us who change,Its our perception towards things.

A person can not be best for you who wants u to do wrong things unless he himself believes it to be right.A father and a friend is always different in relation.A father can become a good friend.But a friend can never be a good father.

A good friend never lets you do stupid things. neither ALONE nor together.I'm really happy when u r happy.But being happy after doing wrong things is taking you long way away.

I know I'm not suppose to say this but I had to ,and I will. I know u have promised me u wont repeat but thats not the end, when u feel really good in doing wrong. This feeling of "GOOD" in wrong doings is A REAL DEVI.
See to judge any thing ,If its right thing to do, its a good practice to do(telling u this if u shun me after reading this post) Try to stand neutral , where nothing matters you i.e. neither in favor  nor against. Like a "ZERO" in a number line, try to see things from there.Surely,we are not perfectionists like the Almighty, n we tend to a wrong thing if bad thing lured us.

I know you will 10 X times feel one thing about me...."So much of Granny crap....stop giving me that u (whatever and what not)." But I personally believe,there is hell a lot difference in growing up and growing bad, in Progress and "Regress", In making a decision and accepting one. In taking a thing and borrowing one. Its too much complicated if you see and too much feeble to get attention.
 I'm not sure if this is going to work, any ways you'll always be the same for me no matter what comes next....I know you had been good at every thing so long , but I barely have any words to speak...I' about speechless!!